What if we celebrated Christmas like it was all about Christ? Oh wait. It is. Then why does Christ only receive our partial attention during the holiday meant to celebrate his coming? Good question.
Christmas has become to us a part of our culture. Christians and non-Christians alike celebrate, often in ways that are far too similar. As we (followers of Christ) are to be set apart from the world every day of our lives, how much more should we be different on the day we celebrate our Savior's birth? And by different, I mean VERY different. Going to church on Christmas Eve and reading the Christmas story together does not qualify as different. These things are great ways to fix our hearts on Christ and should not be abandoned, but when our minds are on shopping and planning (even while we sit in church), our rituals are not pleasing to God. Does this mean we should totally forgo all of the typical Christmas traditions? Maybe, maybe not. There's nothing wrong with Santa and gift giving and food and decorations, but when Christ becomes merely a side note rather than the center of our Christmas celebration, we have a problem. The problem is primarily in our hearts, our motives, our attitudes.
How can we fix this problem? We need to rethink Christmas. We should look at the way we celebrate and ask ourselves if our celebration pleases the Lord. To get down to the core of the matter, we essentially need to ask ourselves how Jesus wants us to celebrate his coming. Now I have a feeling that if we were honest with ourselves, we would realize that our celebration of Christmas is totally not the way Jesus wants it to be. Take gift giving, for example. The concept of gift giving is totally appropriate for Christmas; as God gave us the gift of his Son, we give gifts at Christmastime. However, gift giving often becomes more of an obligation than a pleasure. That's not how God gave us Jesus. God sent Jesus because he loves us and not because of anything we did to deserve him. God gave this gift to people who wronged him, denied him, hated him (yes, that's us). Maybe Jesus wants us not only to give to those who love us back and can give to us in return, but to people who don't love us back or can't give anything in return. That's what he did. Think about the way most of us have at least one big Christmas meal with extended family. Fellowship is critical, and food is sustenance, but what about the people who don't have family to eat with or even food to eat? Jesus said that we can find him in the hungry, thirsty, naked, and sick, the strangers and prisoners. Maybe we could celebrate the coming of Christ by serving these people with our families. We could make some extra food for Christmas dinner and take it to hungry people. We could clean out our closets (often our old Christmas gifts!) and give clothes to people who need them. You get the idea. Christmas is about CHRIST, not about us.